Online course ‘Who is I?

 ‘I’ seems to be one of the most important words in our language. We refer to ourselves as ‘I’. But who is this I? What is it? Is it?

This online class offers a playful, intimate and yet profound exploration of the I-thought. .

“Who is I?” is a six-session  online class. Together we will question what we believe to be our core identity: I. 

Who is this I, claiming to have physical existence in time and space, arguing about cause and effect, telling others how they should treat them, feeling less than or more than, taking credit for having done this and that and yet desperately fearing to be exposed as an imposter?

We will invite our minds to tell us who we supposedly are, what we fear, what we want and need, and what would make us happy. The focus will include the I-sense in our bodies, and images of self and others. 

Let’s dive deep into this inquiry, and let’s play together!

This online class is for people with experience in The Work. 


 I have done a couple of private sessions and different workshops with Aafke, and each time I am in awe of how deep we are diving once again. Aafke is truly living The Work. She has lots of experience, and she has really helped me to dive deeper, to track down underlying beliefs and to see through blind spots. I can recommend her workshops, and I’ll be the first to join her next one!”

Karin H., Amsterdam

“Since I’ve been following workshops and sessions with Aafke, my life has changed in a number of ways. Everything seems more effortless. I also feel more connected to myself and other people.”
Anna D., Utrecht

“I can truly recommend Aafke. She knows how to put the finger on the sore spot. She is a fearless facilitator. I feel very safe in her presence.”
Jasper van K.

“It was very special to do The Work in her house in France. Aafke is present, patient and utterly supportive. She has been guiding me through memories of extremely traumatic events in my life, and I have found relief in a way that is beyond all understanding. I can truly recommend her as a facilitator.”


6 Sundays: August 29 – October 10, 2021
10-11:30am PT
*no class on September 19


$180 per person

All packages are valid for one year. Please note: if you are unable to meet me at an arranged appointment, please let me know 24 hours or more in advance, in order for you to not lose the appointment and the fee. Cancellations with more than 24 hours notice may be re-scheduled.

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Working with a skilled facilitator has helped me enormously. Before booking a session with Aafke I had been doing the Work for three years. Looking back, I can see that I have been playing it safe, and that I have mainly used the work for stress reduction. Aafke has shown me the way to a deeper level of understanding. I can sense some real transformations, whereas before things never got to really resolve.